As far as accomplishments
go, I’ve only got a few. I can count all of my finest achievements on one hand,
but completing my first year of university is one at the top of the list! In
September 2015, I arrived in Bristol in my Dad’s car, packed to the brim with
my belongings, to move into my accommodation and begin university. I was beyond
scared, and it was definitely one of the most vulnerable I’ve ever felt. Eight
months on, though, I feel like I’m practically invincible and my Superwoman
cape is poking out from beneath my dressing gown. I wanted to write this blog
post as a bit of a celebration, and to share with you guys what the first year
of university has taught me. *Spoiler* Does not contain actual lecture notes or
ANYTHING useful.
You’ll find yourself
Cliché as it sounds (and
I genuinely wanted to vomit all over everyone who told me this before I started
uni), you really do discover who you are. I have strengths I never knew about –
weaknesses too – but I’m much more in touch with myself than I have ever been.
It’s really interesting to see which people your gravitate towards, what
interests you’ll discover, and how you grow when you’re not living at home
under your parents’ roof. I really was worried, but after the first few weeks,
you’ll find yourself being so much more resilient and self-sufficient. It’s
amazing!
Cooking isn’t all that
I carted about 5 student
cookbooks with me to uni, and I’ve opened them a grand total of zero times.
Luckily, I’m OK-ish in the kitchen. I love experimenting and I adore food (too
much, probably). However, my flat mate needed explaining how to cook pasta
about a month into living there. To be honest, you probably won’t transform
into Gordon Ramsay overnight, but as a student, there’s nothing a good ready
meal, pot noodle or tin of beans can’t fix.
What are budget?
So I was living on a set
amount of money per week, and I was SHOCKINGLY BAD at budgeting. I’d get paid
on a Monday and I’d somehow end up with £12 to last me the rest of the week. I
know most people aren’t like this, and I have a friend who was actually saving
money whilst studying, but I learned that happiness comes above trying to stick
to my budget. I splashed out regularly on clothes, makeup, meals out, drinks.
In hindsight, I’ve probably shot myself in the foot a little bit, but in the
grand scheme of things, what’s a little more student debt on top of what I’m
already going to owe?
The only person you can rely on is yourself
Another little cliché here,
but I heard an amazing saying while studying. “The best thing about university is
that you can miss a lesson whenever you want. The worst part about university
is that you can miss a lesson whenever you want.” You’ll soon learn that
without mum to drag you by the ankles out of bed, or without dad bringing you a
cup of tea, you’ve got to pull your socks up and make it in to your classes.
This all helps to build courage and motivation.
And with that, I’ve completed
my first year! And maaaan do I feel like a legend. I’ve got friends who are
finishing their whole course, but I’m keeping focused and I can’t wait to work
loads over summer and prepare for my move to London. If any of you are
struggling to decide on whether university is right for you, I’d definitely suggest
that you think more about your options and the amazing life lessons that come
with moving out and being responsible for yourself. It’s liberating and
exciting, it’s difficult and heartbreaking, but it moulds and shapes you, and
is an incredible step in the story of you.
Whew, that’s enough
emotional spew for today. 10/10 Jazzy!
Lots of love,
Jasmine x
I just finished my second year of university and I can definitely relate to all of these !
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Oihana
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Well done for completing your first year. I went way too young and didn't take advantage of it like I should have, I really regret not putting more into my time there! So good to see you have learned so much in your first year :)
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Erin || MakeErinOver
I too have just finished my first year, such a great feeling!
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